ILI UDUMU KATIKA MAHUSIANO YAKO.EPUKA KUMWAMBIA MPENZI WAKO MANENO HAYA


Endapo umekwisha ingia katika mahusiano au unatarajia kuingia katika mahusiano ya kimapenzi, yapo mambo yanyofaa ambayo junaweza kumwambia mpenzi wako naye akafurahi, lakini yapo mambo ambayo kimsingi hupaswi kabisa kumwambia mpenzi wako. Kwani endapo utaamua kumwambia utatengeneza njia ambayo itawafanya mahusiono yenu yafe mara moja.
Maneno yafuatayo ni hatari kwa kuwa yanaleta madhara makubwa moyoni mwa mlengwa na ni vyema kuzuia kuyatamka kwa namna yoyote ile.
Maneno  Mabaya Ambayo Hutakiwi Kusema Kwa Mwenza Wako:
1. Nakuchukia
Chuki ni kitu kikubwa sana,kwa kweli huwezi kuishi na mtu ambaye unamchukia. Hutakiwi kumtamkia mwenza wako neno hili. Unaweza kuchukia tabia yake lakini si yeye mwenyewe. Njia nzuri ni kusema kuwa “Nachukia au sipendi tabia yako ya kuchelewa kurudi nyumbani” au maneno yanayofanana na hayo.
2. Maneno ya Matusi
Maneno kama “mjinga” au “mpumbavu” yasitumike kwa mwenza wako hata kama yana ukweli ndani yake. Japo ujinga ni kutofahamu kitu fulani lakini neno hili linaleta majeraha kama likitoka kwa mwenza. Hasa kama linatoka wakati wa ugomvi au kutofautiana.
Useseme maneno mabaya yanayomshusha mweza wako mfano kuhusu mwonekano mbaya wa mwenza wako kama “sura mbaya”,”Mnene kama nguruwe” n.k
3. Kumfananisha Tabia Mbaya mwezi wako na Wazazi Wake.
“Tabia zako kama mama yako”, au “..kama baba yako” maneno yanayomfananisha mwenza wako na wazazi au familia anakotoka yanachokoza sana na huweka vidonga kwa muda mrefu moyoni na yaepukwe.
4. Acha! Nitafanya Mwenyewe
Katika mahusiano kusaidiana ni jambo la kawaida na muhimu,maneno mabaya ya namna hii yanamvunja moyo mweza wako kutaka kufanya jambo kwako siku nyingine na linaleta utengano na kuvunjika kwa upendo.
5. Maneno Mabaya ya Kukatisha Tamaa
“Hutaweza” ,”Hutafanikiwa” n.k yanavunja moyo kwa mwenza wako na kurudisha nyuma maendeleo.
Ni muhimu kwa wenza kupeana moyo na kusaidiana ili wote muende mbele kwa pamoja. Umoja ni nguvu.
Hivyo nikusihi ya kwamba kama kweli unataka kudumu katika mahusiano ya ndoa acha mara moja kumwambia maneno hayo, bali unatakiwa kumfariji kwa maneno mazuri yenye kuleta upendo wa kweli na kujenga hamasa ya kudumu milele.


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